He gives me some tips (like if in the morning she takes her son/daughter to school... or goes shopping etc)... he tells me where and when I can run into her... At that point I show up at the place where she should be... and I try to strike up a conversation (she doesn't know anything about any of this). I try to court her a little... see if she's into it... if we immediately get a spark we do something right away... out and about or we come to my place... otherwise we exchange contact details (social media or phone numbers) and start playing... I try to intrigue her... court her etc... He's always up to date on everything of course... I send screenshots of messages... or photos/videos (if I can record something while we're having sex) or I inform him of any developments via WhatsApp etc.